Trumpy “acquintances”

Well friendship is a good wheel on how to train yourself on how to handle and continue with relationships. It’s amicable that they tend to teach us various things and how to go about drastic situations. It’s a strong shield essential for one because we all know that self dependence can as well lead to failure, and at the same time success,depending on the root and cause of the decision.

There are friends we can have and feel as if there’s a whole bag of stones on our backs and others as if life got a whole lot easier.

What I mean is that it’s all good and dual beneficial until the time you find yourself in trouble that’s when you figure out you’re alone. Yes this universe shows and yells in our ears every time that you know your friends when you undergo hurricanes and they cannot endure them. There is lack of discrepancy when it comes trouble than there is when fun and laughter creeps in. Consistency should be a key factor when it comes to dealing with situations that require much from us or little nevertheless.

I’ve come to be a witness of a friendship between people who lack self drive but depend on the drive of one person meaning that there is some sort of leadership among them. Not that they really don’t know what to do that they consult the head or so but they prefer the decision of that one person because it tends to be the wave of all people there. Because their suggestion might not weigh as much as the decision of the other one. So without them knowing they’re subjecting themselves to redundancy and misappropriation of their time and what they really must’ve done in the first place.

Having friends who can mutually correlate and all is cute but it gets ugly when you’re supposed to do something which they ask of you at the expense of cancelling your own plans which might have been beneficial. You shouldn’t have to redeem your plans for the sake of something you’re not really feeling just because you feel you need to dig for a connection between you and your friends. Sometimes being a lone wolf makes you wiser than having to tire your body doing redundant things all over again.

If you’re going to have to slaughter your heart for the sake of someone who probably doesn’t deserve it just because you feel an obligation to do so then I have to say your mind has traded quarters with your ancestors from the previous ten centuries. The brain damage that has been inflicted upon you doesn’t seem to be wearing off anytime soon because friendship doesn’t mean you die for each other but to survive for each other. There’s no day pillars that hold a monument can succumb to the monument. There’s no day support systems are built after the object to be supported. The same way friendships can’t help you if you keep on sacrificing yourself for a cause that was not intended in the first place.

Know the type of commitments you indulge yourself into before opening your arms to things that might in the end consume you beyond recognition.